Backward Rationalizing My Job
Think about how a girl would perceive Todd’s job as a “meeting girls live” coach. How would a girl respond to this? Before sleeping with Todd, think about what is validating to her and giving value to her life. If she is sleeping with him, she is just the next girl who the techniques worked on and it doesn’t seem like she earned him. The more validating thing would be to reject him after a guy, who has gotten a lot of girls, pursues. This changes game fundamentally and there are adaptations to be made.
It is different if the girl finds out about the job after sex. She’s already slept with him, so the techniques already worked. She now has a choice to be the next girl who Todd never sees again or she is the girl who keeps him when he could see other girls. It is now more validating to keep Todd around.